my best friend and I have known eachother for like 2 years. I've been hanging out with other people and all of a sudden she starts hanging out with other people but I always try to make time for her. I have just been realizing our friendship is dying. I try talking to her but it seems like shes upset with me or not intrested. What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Darby answered Thursday August 6 2009, 10:31 pm: Well, if you're hanging out with other people, she's probably upset about that. You're upset because she's hanging out with other people, so why wouldn't she feel the same way? Especially because you're initiating the change in friends. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with other people, and that's what you need to explain to your friend. But you should both make time for each other, too. Tell her that you don't want to hang out with her less, you just want to meet other people too.
Don't start the conversation by accusing her of anything, because then she'll definitely be uninterested or upset. Just be calm and tell her that you miss hanging out as much as you used to.
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