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im hopeless brenda!!
Brenda!
I feel hopeless, I'm 15 female,
and I dont have a boyfriend.
I dont feel that I need one, and I know its bad to be in a relationship when you think you NEED a boyfriend you know?
But everyone says to wait, and eventually I'll find one, but alot of girls my age are in relationships, and I just dont understand why I'm not yet, I mean I'm confident in myself, I'm happy with who I am.
I'm not desperate, I'm just a little confused, why all the popular people get into meaningless relationships, and I havent had a boyfriend ever in my life yet.
Blahh what can you make of that?
thankss
<3
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Hi
I can soooo relate to you my dear! I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 17. All my friends had boyfriends, and I always felt like the third wheel.
You said yourself that popular people get into meaningless relationships, and end up being miserable. You wouldn't want that anyway.
It's excellent that you are confident in yourself, and you're happy with who you are. Alot of teens can't say the same thing.
The right guy is going to come along (sooner rather than later), and he is going to notice how confident you are, and he's going to want to know you. Confidence is such a HUGE boost to one's character....a major turn on.
Don't ever change who you are to try and land a guy, just for the sake of getting one...it will backfire on you.
Have you ever heard the saying "it's better to be alone for the right reasons, than be together with someone for the wrong reasons"? It's so true..always remember it.
Let the popular girls weed out all the losers, and rejects...that way the good ones will be ready for you.
Take care, and keep being your great self!
Brenda
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