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Rotten Best friend
Okay my sister told me her problem but i didn't now what to say, so please help.
WHAT MY SISTER TOLD ME :( My bestfriend is so great, we grew up together, and have been bestfriends since like forever, but she is always making me feel bad. For example, once she came over, and like just started saying how a lot of boys liked her. Then she started taking credit for my life, like she asked me who liked you this year? And i told her who, and then she was like, just telling cuzin Clarissa that every boy that likes me liked her first, she even tells others that some of my bfs liked her be4 they liked me. I act all cool and normal, but i really feel sad, i tried talking to her but i dont know wat 2 say. Another thing that makes me feel bad is when she denies or competes her family against mine. Like once i told her that i was in trouble and she said, your always in trouble, man your family is so strict, i told her 2 deal with it, and she was just silent. She also once did something crazy, i was saying how i had a blind family member, then she starts rubbing in that she has a paralyzed, blind, mute family member. once she even lied and saw me lift weight six times, and she said she lifted it like five, but then my uncle came back the next day and said she couldn't even lift it, my brother said the same. She tells a lot of lies and whenever i ask if it was evr true she always has to say sorry that she made a mistake bcuz she didn't mean to say something that wasn't true. She doesn't know how feel, and there was this once time that she told me i made her feel bad. i was playing volleyball, and said man natalie you do look scary without your glasses, and she called back later and said i made her feel bad, i said sorry, and we were cool. That was the only time i ever made her feel bad. What should i do to make her know how i feel? is she a good bestfriend? even though weve never had a fight.):
What should i teel her, ill rate 4-5 if a good answer!
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okayy, shes not the greatest friend. if i were you, i would just sit her down and say something like "i know you don't realize it, but you make me feel really bad about myself alot, you brag about yourself and you don't even stop to think that you're putting me down" maybe you could try to be a little nicer to me, and not as self centered. if she gets mad at you, then shes really not worth it at all.
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