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well i'm 14 and i know that this probly sounds stuped but my b/f which is 17 and me desided that our relshonship is really stronge and that we could go farther than we have been well we desided that he could finger me and i would give him a hand job but this we did in water i was woundering if i could get pregent b/c i saw stuff come out of his penis and even though it did not go in my vagina the stuff csme really close i was wondering if some how it could have got inside of me and i could get pregnet?
please help me i'm really really scard.
and if i am prgent how can i tell my mom and dad?
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What sort of water were you in? If it was chloronated, like a swimming pool or hot tub, then the chemicals probably killed any sperm.
It's important to think carefully about what you want in the future. In the heat of the moment, it's easy to get carried away - if you make choices beforehand, you're more likely to follow through.
This means thinking about any sexual activities. Keeping his semen (the stuff you saw come out of his penis) away from your vagina will help prevent pregnancy. If he has had sex before, keeping it away from any body openings (including cuts and wounds) will help reduce the chance of contracting a sexually transmitted infection.
Decide now how you want to protect yourself, and how far you feel comfortable going. Discuss this with your boyfriend and let him know that you are concerned about your health and just want to take care of yourself. Chances are he's not ready to be a father yet and will be supportive.
In the meantime, wait for your period. You don't need to worry now about telling your parents, as it's not likely you are pregnant. However, think about this scared, panic feeling before you do take any risks which could lead to an unplanned pregnancy. It's possible to enjoy your body AND keep yourself safe.
Best of luck.
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