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Friend with Benefits????
I am 32 female(married 4 years) and recently divorced - so I am totally out of the loop with dating and other stuff. Met this guy with issues(2ce divorced, children)and no time for a relationship. I need space and just want a roll in the sheets from time to time and he agreed, and actually suggested it. We had our first sexual encounter about 2 weeks ago. When I left his house I thanked him. - My best friend told me that that nobody likes to feel like a piece of a$% and by me saying that, he might have felt that way - regardless of the agreement. I called him a week ago and left a message and he did not call me back. Am I looking to far into this or should I take that as a hint and keep moving...
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I don't see how you could have done anything wrong here. You had a mutual agreement and everything worked out just as planned. As to why he hasn't called you back or contacted you since then, it could be anything...he could be busy, he could be trying to keep distance (so it doesn't turn into an every other night thing- and thus a relationship), he could have another such buddy, he could have met someone he wants to try for a relationship with, he could have decided he didn't like the idea of friends with benefits after all...anything. Don't take it personally, not by any means. If you don't hear from him within the next two weeks or so, assume that your agreement wasn't working out for him and move on. I wouldn't call him again, you already made the first effort.
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