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Okay well there is this guy, Billy. I have liked him for a while now and he likes me too. We both really want to be with eachother. Theres just one problem. Hes 15 and in 11th grade and im 13 and in 8th grade.Him and my sister are in the same grade..my sister does not care for him at all.. she really dislikes him and says stuff to him like .. " if you try to hook up with my sister im going to kick your butt". I understands shes my older sister and wants to look out for me but i think she needs to let me be happy. My mom knows about him also ( because my sister told her) she says i needed to stop talkin to him. I still talk to him though. She says hes in 11th grade and all he wants to do is get down my pants. Which yes i know alot of guys do but he is NOT like that. The most hes ever done is kiss. Ive also talked to one of his ex girlfriends so i know for a fact hes not. But my mom does not get that. I know she would yell at me if she knew i still talked to him yet liked him. I just dont know what to do. Please dont say try him though... to get over TRUST me ive tried..it doesnt work that easy. Thanks.
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First off, thanks for dropping it in my inbox, feel free to do so any other time. From what you told me it seems that your sister and your mother are trying to watch out for you. Even though its 2 years and 3 grades difference, its a lot more than you think, trust me. I've been there both and its a huge jump.
Well...personally, I would advise you to wait and find somebody else. Why am I saying that after you told me not to? Because I'm also a junior and while I don't mean to judge...that sometimes leads to bad news; I've had friends of my younger brother who have had that happend to. From my point of view, you havn't had enough experience to really know what he is like not from what he tells you, but from what you see...both good and bad.
But on the other hand...if you do want to convince your mother to let him talk to you again and vice versa, ask her if it would be ok to invite him to dinner. That might not work. It is a tough situation. You might be better off waiting until you are a bit older, where they would trust you more. If they both expect you not to talk to him, then it doesn't seem like there is much you could do to get them to change their mind. If thats the case, then you might want to ask Billy to see if he can change a bit, ya know...act the way your mother and sister would want him to. That way at least they might ease up a bit.
I'm not sure what else to say, it is a tough situation, if you really really don't want to get over him. You're looking at a dead end though. Plead with your mom to let you talk to him even if its just online or something. It will take time for that to work though. So give it a try and wait it out a bit. Hope that helped and good luck.
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