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(soory this is so long)Well me and my boyfriend where talking on the phone last night about "stuff" and i asked him if he ever looked at his ex-girlfriends boobs when they were going out and he said once or twice so then i asked him what was going through his head when he looked.he kept saying no your going to be mad at me(a while before i asked him if he thought my boobs where big and he said yes they were nice and i asked him has he ever looked at them and he said yes but just a peek so then i asked him what was going through his head and he said nothing was gouing through his head)okay well back to present times he finnaly answered me and said he was thinking damn!i asked him what that meant and he said it meant WOW.i dont know why but i started to cry not poring but red eyed.i didnt say anything but he kept saying its okay whitch i couldnt understand why he kept saying that but it was making me mad.he told me he never really liked her and he liked mine better.i dont know how to think about this.could he still like her even though he said he doesnt.could i be jelous.i need advice.please help.thanx
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Well, why did you ask him? It sounds to me like you were sort of trying to get him to say what he did. He didn't want to answer because he knew it would upset you, and he was right.
Now, the fact that he likes his ex-girlfriend's breasts isn't a problem. Breasts are very attractive. You shouldn't be jealous of her, because she's his EX-girlfriend. He could fantasize about your breasts or hers, but in the end, he's with you. The reason he said that nothing was going through his head was so that you wouldn't get upset, but the truth is that he probably thinks about sex several times each day. There's nothing wrong with that--it's completely natural!
You were crying. He was trying to comfort you. And this made you angry? Girls sometimes cry when there's really nothing, when we just need to vent our frustrations. Guys don't get that. He thought that you were seriously hurt by something, so he was trying to make it better, when really you were just frustrated. There's no reason to be angry at him for being nice.
You need to stop concerning yourself with his ex-girlfriend. Like I said, she's his EX, and you're his girlfriend. Don't play mind games with him--asking him a question and leading him to believe that it won't make you upset, even though it will, is just that: a mind game. In the future, don't ask things if you can't handle the answer.
Don't worry about it! Your boyfriend cares about you. You both just need to work on communication is all. It's not a big problem. =)
-Lea
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