okay, here`s my problem.
my current boyfriend jordan went out with my best-friend hannah for about 2 months, then they broke up, and 1 month later he asked me out. and the thing is, hannah and jordan will talk on the phone all of the time. he talks to her more than he talks to me. and i`m getting kindof jealous. now, she still likes him, but he`s over her. and the only time i talk to jordan is when i call him. so basically, how can i make it so that they don`t talk as much and me and jordan talk more?
also, she`s been my best friend for 10 years, they`ve been friends for about 1 year, and he`s been my boyfriend since march, i don`t want to lose either one.
aaallsssso; she`ll talk to him about her problems more than she will with me.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sorry_about_that_x3 answered Thursday June 15 2006, 11:29 pm: Hm, maybe try telling them how you feel. You might be scared to loose them, but if shes your real friend and he really cares about you, dont you think that they'd be afraid to loose you too. Maybe tell Hannah that you feel that she thinks she cant talk to you and you should let her no that she can talk to her probelems with you and not just Jordan. You can tell Jordan that you feel that there might be something happening between him and Hannah and that your getting kind of jealous. Or just say what you feel, take the risk. You never know what can happen, but im sure its better then getting upset about it and keeping your feelings inside you. I really hope this helps, if you need more advice ask again or just i.m me alright? And thank you so much for loving the column, that made my day. =) [ sorry_about_that_x3's advice column | Ask sorry_about_that_x3 A Question ]
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