Alright, so I really like this girl at my school. She will be a junior and I a sophmore. When I talk to her, I feel all nervous, but we still talk a lot and stuff. We aren't really good friends or anything, but we have a lot of the same friends. Although I haven't gotten a definate answer, some people have told me they don't think she likes me. I still really like her though, and I don't know what to do? I can't just stop liking her, but at the same time I know I probably shouldn't ask her out or anything. I think that she is so beautiful, although that is not the reason that I like her, and I feel this connection with her, as if we were going out or something. idk how to explain it, I've never felt it around a girl who "doesn't like me" before. Please tell me, what should I do??
jumadel answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 1:53 am: Hi there, It sounds as though you love her. Thats nice. heres some things you need to check when telling her how you feel:
1. TIME: Is she busy with something, or free to talk?
2. PLACE: Is she in school, or in a quiet area were the two of you won't be disturbed
If she's free and your both in a quiet place then you can tell her how you feel about her. Where as if you was in a disco, it would'nt be practical. Do you see what Im getting at?
Most girl's are flattered when someone ask's them out, or tell's her how much you like her. They might not say yes. But it really does warm their heart up. Heres some charectaristics that girls look for in a friend/boyfriend:
1. Humour
2. Funny
3. Kind
4. Listener
5. Fun
6. Active
and most of all someone who feels good about themselves. Girl's don't like people drowling over them. But asking them out is sweet. They will feel flattered. Just do it one of these days. Remember time and place. Let me know how you get on. Good luck!!!. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
missmissgurl answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 12:53 am: Tell her you think she's beautiful and feel a connection you've never felt before. Some girls don't even notice a guy until they realize they like them. Then, their like wow, I could date this guy, it like triggers something in their mind I guess.lol Before you tell her this I think you need to talk to her more, hang out together, become better friends. She might think yur a little weird if u just come out and say it. If she doesn't like you I'm very sorry, but it's better to know now than to wait and make it hurt more. Good Luck!!!! [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
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