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fwb?
I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us? If we are just friends with benefits why does he call so much, I thought you just called for a booty call when you are fwb?
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Dear FWB,
I understand the mixed feelings in that situation. I was once and still every now and again feel the confusion, since I was a frosh in high school a girl(we grew up together) and I decided that we would just be friends with benefits(im a junior is college) and we still have that relationship(we had rules). But the funny thing is is that shes like my best friend and we talk all the time. Friends with benefits is just another way of having a relationship with someone without having all the relationship requirements (PDA or boyfriend girlfriend title). He might actually want to get closer to you. Playing the friends with benefits role and even fulfilling it is actually very hard, because most of the time there is always some kind of feeling on both sides. My advice to you is to find out what exactly he is looking for from you, and if you decide to continue this role make rules, trust me they will save you from a world of hurt in the future.
Hope this helps
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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