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I REALLY HAVE A PROBLEM Im 14 years old and im a female anyways i like some boy at church and he is so sweet and nice and he likes me too but everytime i get around him i get shy and cant talk or i just feel different like im not myself im a shy person but this never happned before. He wants to talk to me but he goes to another hig school than me and me or never together and he live so far away from me and i only see him on sundays so im scared to go with him cause what if he cheat on me what if he already have a girlfriend what if hes just using me. im scared to get my heart broken and hes really cute and funny he always makes me laugh and i think there is something wrong with me can you help me please.
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first see if hes the real deal and see if you like hime alot.i no long distant relationships are hard beleve me i no but if it was me i wouldnt have any long affairs even if liked the person that much .decide am i willing 2 stay faithful and true 2 him no cheeting no anything then thats that answer.about being shy pretnd you are just friends and theres no tension between you both then start talking to him as if he was a good friend.hope i helped in any way ]
I think that you should get to know him first. Don't just assume that he's the 'right one' and start a relationship. You can start conversations with him, say something like 'hey [name], did you catch the season premiere of [show]?' or 'hey [name], have you heard [song] by [band/singer]'. This reminds me of my first crushes when I was 13. I thought 'Oh, this guy looks hot', so I went out with him, and he ended up cheating on me. ]
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