Im 14 years old and im a female anyways i like some boy at church and he is so sweet and nice and he likes me too but everytime i get around him i get shy and cant talk or i just feel different like im not myself im a shy person but this never happned before. He wants to talk to me but he goes to another hig school than me and me or never together and he live so far away from me and i only see him on sundays so im scared to go with him cause what if he cheat on me what if he already have a girlfriend what if hes just using me. im scared to get my heart broken and hes really cute and funny he always makes me laugh and i think there is something wrong with me can you help me please.
xxsima answered Saturday June 10 2006, 1:01 pm: I think that you should get to know him first. Don't just assume that he's the 'right one' and start a relationship. You can start conversations with him, say something like 'hey [name], did you catch the season premiere of [show]?' or 'hey [name], have you heard [song] by [band/singer]'. This reminds me of my first crushes when I was 13. I thought 'Oh, this guy looks hot', so I went out with him, and he ended up cheating on me. [ xxsima's advice column | Ask xxsima A Question ]
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