Okay, I don't know you, but your advice column was rated really high. I have 2 dads and I live with my stepdad right now. My biological dad had a massive heartattack and he died today about an hour ago. I really am going to miss him...but I don't know how much I will miss him. I never really saw him, and one time he tried to kidnap me. So, I really need help. What should I do!?
There isnt a book on this kind of thing. You will miss him as much or as little as your head and heart decide. Somedays you wont even think about it, others you may cry your eyes out.
There isnt really anything you can do, you cant just say "i will miss him this much" or "i wont miss him"
Even if he has done crazy things in the past, your head and your heart (subconsiously) will take care of how much or little to miss him.
Again, im sorry, and be very greatful you have your step dad
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