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could i be pregnant?


Question Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 5:14 am

my bf and i have been doing tha dirty for 4 months already, and we are extremely active...we always use the pull out method, i know it's not the safe way to have sex but he pulls out. is there a possibility that i could be pregnant if he pulls out and comes then sticks it back into me???? i just ended my period 10 days before i noticed some spotting on my panties. its now been 3 days since i noticed it and it finally quit today, i've been really tired and feel sick to my stomach, i just took a pregnancy test the day after i noticed the spotting but it came back negative. is there anyway that i could be prego?

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alisonmarie answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:46 am:
You could definitely get pregnant from the method you've described.

First of all, pulling out is basically useless. Pre-cum, the slippery liquid that you might have noticed on your partner's penis as soon as it gets erect, holds thousands of sperm. You can get pregnant from pre-cum alone, whether he pulls out or not.

After he ejaculates, if he immediately puts his penis in you and stays hard, there's something to worry about. Most males lose their erections after ejaculating - it could take anywhere from 1 minute to 1 hour to get a full erection again.

If he is putting it back in after a couple of minutes (when his erection is back) without cleaning himself properly, then he will still have semen clinging to the tip of his penis. He is then inserting this into you by entering you - not to mention that he will get pre-cum again.

Pregnancy tests will not be accurate very soon after sex. Some tests are accurate before your period is due, while others need to be taken once you have missed your period. It's important to closely read the instructions of any test you purchase so you make sure you take it at the correct time.

Whether you are pregnant or not - which you may not be able to find out for a couple of weeks - you need to immediately start using condoms. While some males say this ruins the sensation of sex for them, it's weighing up his sexual sensation versus you getting pregnant. If condoms genuinely are not an option, then you need to see a doctor and find out about other options for birth control.

Once you become sexually active you need to start seeing a gyno anyway, and your first appointment with him/her would be an excellent time to discuss your birth control needs. You'll need to use condoms before then to ensure you are protecting your health, particularly if you do not feel ready to be pregnant.

Best of luck.

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