okayy .. so me and my boyfriend are coming up on our 4 month anniversary .. and he's alot more attentive then he usually is .. askin me to hang out a lot more than usual, callin, sayin he loves me more .. like maybe he did somethin wrong? am i over reacting .. but i still have a small doubt about the girl he dumped me for last time .. does he still like her?
well her info has a convorsation between them sayin how he fuckin loves her, and thats all there is to it .. and i understand she put it there cuz shes friends with him (shes in COMPLETE love with her boyfriend, moving in together, forever kinda love). but i dont know what he feels. and his friends say i bitch to him about her .. so i dont wanna bug him .. but he never just in random convorstaion tells me he fuckin loves me and thats all there is to it .. but he says that stuff to her .. and im his girlfriend ..
am i being jealous .. am i overreacting .. do i let it go .. help me please ..
Saying I Love You is meant for actually being in love, not as friends, not anything else. If you tell everyone else that you love them, then it's not going to mean anything to your boyfriend. Kissing is meant for someone you are with, not a friend. If you are going to treat everyone else the way you treat your own girlfriend, then the only thing you have is a 'girlfriend' label.
Not only is this another girl, but it's his Ex-Girlfriend and that makes everything about ten times worse. My suggestion to you is to end things with him, I think that he still has feelings for this previous girl and that if you ever want to consider him a boyfriend again, wait until you know for sure that he's over this girl and that he will devote all of his love toward YOU and not anyone else.
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