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Cutting
Hey, I feel like i have no one to talk to me that understands me. I don't want to offend you but i don't want any god advice, just a friend to listen. I used to cut myself a lot. I stopped because i felt i finally had evrything under control, but just recently i have lost the love of my life, and i have had to move back in with my parents. I can;t help but feel the urge soming back again. I know its unhealthy but i cant help it
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Aww, okay, I wont push God into this, if thats what you wish.
Yes cutting is a problem, and I mean I know you hate to hear this, but it does need help. I'm absolutely sure you've heard that probably from some people if you told anyone, but really its something that is serious.
I admit I used to do it too, but not to the extent of bleeding, just to make me suffer, you know?
Anyways I'm so sorry hun that you lost the love of your life, I dont know how old you are, but I'm still sure that your heart aches so much, and its so deep and hurts really bad, I'm sorry. Life is really hard, and unfair, but I like to think everything happens for a reason, and eventually in life when we are further along we can look back and see our mistakes that really were good things in diguise, you know?
I've had that a lot, where I broke up with this guy, I was head over heels in love with, he was amazing. Until one day he stopped talking to me completely, and then the next thing I knew he had another girlfriend, I was heartbroke, because it hurt so bad..Okay getting back to the subject, if you dont think you can contain yourself from hurting yourself, you really need to talk to someone, its good your talking to me, and trusting me to share your problems with, I'm flattered. :) But I think the best thing you could do is talk to a counsular, they cant tell anyone what you tell them, but then again they might find cutting a life threatening problem, at my school they dont.
But okay I know your having an EXTREAMLY hard time in your life right now, I am sorry, the road of life is really bumpy,crooked, and has lots of bushes with thorns. But we'll make it through it, it takes time, and being careful, and letting the wounds heal.
But about your parents, I dont know what they would say to you, but I do hope they understand the you are feeling, because you did just lose the love of your life. And at the moment you are very fragile, and if they arent very supportive that you had moved out in the first place, then just you need to explain to them what went on, and how you felt, because talking is really the only way to let people know. You can expect them to see from your face how your feeling inside.. :(
Okay, about having urges to cut again, well I'm sure you know that cutting is addicting, so it can be hard to stop. But try doing other things instead of cutting, what I find really helpful (they may sound stupid) but they are reallllly helpful to me atleast, is writing in a journal, making art (you can express how you feel with art, i absolutely love art. because its never wrong or right) You can make something and destroy it if it makes you feel better.
Heartbreaks and feeling the way you do, take time to deal with, and cope with. Trust me, I know about that. If you ever need someone to talk to, IM me @ kaylehmae or you can email me at lover_109432@hotmail.com feel free, but in the subject put your name and then - advicecolumn. :)
And another thing you could do to not cut, is write down on a peice of paper all the things your feeling right now, and try to sort them o ut, and why you are feeling that way. You need to find the answers to "why" and "how".. you know?
Anyways sweetie, feel free to send me an email, IM me, or just another inbox question. I hope everything in life gets better, summers almost here as well.
Take care!
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