|
dateing older.
hey. okay well there is this guy.. i have been off and on with him since 8th grade.. hes so sweet.. but hes just so shy.. and i hate that.. but for some reason i just cant help but like him.. even though he can annoy the crap out of me.. but there is this other guy.. hes a senior tho.. and im going to be a soph.(i'm a summer baby, so im old for a soph.) but hes really sweet too. hes on the varsity team for baseball, he lives in my neighborhood, and hes soooo nice. (well they both live in my neighborhood) i just dont know what to do, i know i can trust the older guy, but i know my parents wouldnt like it, and i know this is my last chance with the other guy i ahve been off and on with since 8th grade. so i just dont know what to do, because i keep changeing my mind, and im supposed to go out on a date with the older guy, but im scared im going to end up feeling bad about basically lying to the other guy. i just dont know what to do, so please help me. thanks babe.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Haha. you're really confused huh? okay well here's what i think. I've been off and on with a guy for 3 years now. I almost lost him this last time because i cheated on him. But luckily he came back. However, i had to give up the other guy. Him and i dont even talk anymore. At the time though, i didnt know what the outcome was going to be. But what you have to remember is....you're only a teen still. You have your whole life ahead of you and who's to say that this guy is going to be "the one." So...who do you like more, at this second without a doubt? Think about all of the things you like and dont like about each. Who has more things about them that you like? Who has more that you dont like? Once you figure that out, go for the one with the more things that you do like. <br><br>
Let's say you go out with the senior. Yeah this <i>might</i> be the last chance with the other guy. But then again, if he likes you and he has since 8th grade...he wont give up on you. <br><br>
Now let's say you go out with this guy from 8th grade. If it works out...great. If not, you know it wasnt meant to be and you can give the senior a chance. <br><br>
So basically, no matter what you do, you can't go wrong. And if you lose one of them, it just wasn't meant to be. I know that's probably hard to hear but it's the truth. But always remember....there are sooo many guys out there. You're still a teen. Why should you have to only worry about 1 or 2 of them. If they dont work, there's plenty of years to keep looking.<br><br>
Keep your chin up.<br>
♥ Me
]
More Questions: |