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jealousy of a friend?
first of all, i want to apologize for having such a long problem.
second, i am 13/f
i have this guyfriend and i used to think he was my best friend because he just understands me unlike anyone else. i have this other friend, who has a similar name to mine, in most of my classes, people confuse us CONSTANTLY. i didn't really mind it until he did it because i thought he liked me more than her.
i got my friend to ask him who his best friend that was a girl was (not to make it obvious by asking him if he liked me or her better) and he said that SHE was his best friend that's a girl!
i was extremely upset because i've been through a lot in the last two months such as losing several good friends because of extremely unnecessary fights and i've just been very sensitive and not really listening to anyone. i thought that maybe he was the only person that i could truly count on. i've been REALLY hurt these past two months, and it's like i just added to that.
also, he is definitely not her best guyfriend. but we would always talk i am just so surprised that he said that i couldnt even explain the shock. we got in a fight a few months ago but we are currently (good?) friends. to tell you the truth, i dont like any of my friends. he was the only one that i actually had real friend qualities.
i've been so super bitchy to him this whole week because he is constantly flirting and talking with her but everyone knows that he is just extremely nice to everyone so i am not sure if it's flirting or not. should i...
a. forget about it and act like nothing ever happened (near impossible)
b. apologize for being a total bitchy freak and stay friends (which is gonna be really hard to do)
c. not forget because i got really hurt and not be mean, but not be really nice to him
d. keep my space with him and ONLY talk to him when completely necessary (which is what i'm doing... i guess)
you dont even understand... i am just so upset i seriously just want to die. (i'm using that to show you how upset i am but i dont know or think i'm suicidal)
thanks beyond much ♥
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hey! i'll start by sayin that options c and d are probably not the answers you want to go with. of course, if i were you i wouldnt just be able to forget about it either; he hurt you! and since he's your friend, he needs to know that. if i were you, i would apologize for being bitchy to him, but your a girl and thats the way you get when your feelings get hurt by your really good friend. since you said he is just a really nice guy, maybe he told your other friend she was his best friend that's a girl because she was the one asking, and he didnt want to hurt her feelings by saying someone else's name. so tell him that he hurt you and try to work things out that way, and then keep on going and being friends like you were, because he was always there for you before, so he will be now too. this is really tough but you will pull through, believe me! xoxo helpachick
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