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Please help me.
I work with this really great girl that I didn't initially have feelings for, but as I've come to know her, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not good at picking up girl's signals, but it looks to me like she flirts with me a lot. Laughs at my jokes, smiles a lot, I'll catch her staring every now and again, but I've misread these signals before.
Plus she's got this boyfriend who's kind of clingy, emotional, neurotic and all this. They've been going out for awhile and live together, but they won't anymore starting this fall. He'll be in another city and she has said that they don't have near the chemistry they did earlier(I guess that can be said for everyone though) and that she hadn't broken up with him yet because of the way he might take it.
So I guess the question's pretty obvious. I don't want to be passive about this and let her get away, yet I feel like for some reason, now isn't the right time. What should I do? Thanks
P.S. My mom's a nurse, too.
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It sounds like she might be in a situation where she doesn't exactly know what to do at this time either, but if she has told you about the change in chemistry and the move..I'd take that as a positive sign. I think she is dropping hints. You are right about the timing though, and you wouldn't want to be a rebounder anyway. Continue to show interest in her day to day activities in a non romantic, but friendly manner. Give it a little more time, and ask her to a simple lunch.
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