Okay well im in 7th grade going on to 8th and last summer i was going out with this boy and it was like the maybe 2nd or 3rd time we went out ( and he was also my first ''real'' boyfriend when i started middle school), but this time i really liked him more then ever and he liked me the same. and something happened and i started to like someone else and i dumped him after 4 in a half months. he's still liked me ever since, and now i'm single and it's ben awhile since we last went out and i think i'm starting to get feelings for him again :/ , i don't even think all of my feelings even went away from the first time we went out and i don't know if i what to ask him out or not. because i kind of like to be single, but sometimes i don't and i'm so confused whether i like him, like whenever i see him i think of something to say to start a conversation just so me and him can talk, and whenever he sees me at my locker before lunch, he comes up to me and helps me open my locker and then walks with me to lunch, like he's not the hottest guy i know but i kind of think that we had to much in the summer to just forget about it and move on. i don't know what to do , i am so confused. help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Sunday May 28 2006, 10:48 pm: First of all, you need to make up your mind about what you want. You want too many things at once and it's not going to work that way. You're messing with his head by making him think you like him and then you tell him you like someone else.. and then you like him again. Make up your mind and stick to it. If you like him right now and want to be single, you shouldn't be rushing into a relationship because you don't want to lose him or something. It's going to make it worse because you will be trying to force this relationship to work. Stay single and keep talking to him and flirting with him until you're ready for a relationship. Make sure you commit to it. You shouldn't be confusing him anymore. Just take it slow and don't try to push anything further. If something should happen, it will. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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