I've liked this guy who's in my grade for a few months now, and it doesn't feel like it's going to go away anytime soon. I feel like he would never like me back because he's pretty hot and I'm...not. I feel like I act like a bitch around him, but my friends tell me I don't. He sorta acts like he likes me, but I'm not sure. He lives kinda far away, so even if he does, what do I do? Here are the reasons why he may like me:
-He stares at me. He looks away when I look at him.
-He says really random things to me out of nowhere that have nothing to do with anything. I don't know if he does that to other girls or not.
-He seems to touch me randomly. He'll poke me, or one time he was complimenting my voice and he slapped me on the back.
I don't know if I'm imagining these things, or if he's just trying to be friendly. Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? summerGIRL_xo answered Sunday May 21 2006, 10:09 am: It seems like he's flirting with you, but im sorry to say that doesn't neccesary mean he likes you. don't put yourself down - if YOU believe that he's way out of your league, he'll believe it to. start thinking about all the GOOD things you had and why that would make a guy want to be with you. anyway, if he's flirting with you, that means he must find you attractive in some way. try to talk to him more and put yourself out there. develop your friendship (+flirting) so that you have a stronger bond. suggest things, like, "I really want to see this movee .. " and if he says, "Yah, me too" suggest that you should go together. all in all, take a chance & put yourself out there. something good mmight come out of it :) [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
haileynicole answered Sunday May 21 2006, 12:02 am: It seems like he's being a normal flirt. Although, the staring thing could be a key factor. You know personally if you act like a bitch to him or not. Sometimes girls flirt by playing hard to get, and we don't even realize it. We can be "viscious" and think that it makes guys like us more. But the truth is, they don't like it at all. The kind of girl most guys are attracted to is a playful, fun flirty girl who is nothing but herself. Open up to this guy! Don't hold back. Pass him a note in class, invite him over for a "study date," or find out his screen name. The best way to get a guy to like you is to get to know him and open up to him. If he likes you, you'll get the vibe. If he doesn't, youll get that vibe, too. Don't worry, if he's not right for you then there will be plenty of other guys. And don't be so down on yourself! Everyone's beautiful in their own way. [ haileynicole's advice column | Ask haileynicole A Question ]
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