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Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 and my boyfriend Jesse never talks to me and when I asked him why he never talked to me all he said is becouse he didn't feel like it and it's been like this from day 1 and our relationship has been going on a little over a month.what's going on?
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I'm afraid that a lot of guys just don't talk to people, whether it's his girlfriend, family or even his best friends.
The problem with this is that communication is a major issue in every relationship and if a couple can't communicate properly, the relationship is doomed from the start.
If it is only little things he isn't talking to you about then there's no real cause for concern, as long as he is telling you important things. If on the other hand, we're talking about big things or if he just sits there in silence and doesn't talk at all in general, this is a big problem, because it makes for very poor company and a really useless boyfriend.
If you have tried confronting him about this before and nothing has changed, give it one more try. Tell him that you need to feel that he can be open with you about things and talk to you about his worries, hopes and fears. If he still can't do this, or makes a big issue out of it, you will be a lot better off without him. There are guys out there who will talk to you about things that bother them and guys who can actually hold up their end of a conversation. If this one doesn't get out there and find someone who does. You deserve a lot better.
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