okay well so theres this boy me and him went out for about the whole summer off and on and we were in love..and then he broke my heart and we broke up and everyone thinks im different now bc i dont even wear make up dress up or care about trying anymore bc he like ruined me..and its been a while since weve gone back out and everyoen tells me i dont need him and he doesnt deserve me..adn im kind of feeling the same way with them also and everyone once in a while we'll see eachother and he'll be like all over me and we'll talk to eachother like that whole night and he'll always tell me how much he loves me and acts lke he wants to go out and then he does that and i get so excited nad all happy and start falling for him again bc i thought he is too and he kept asking me who i liked and everything and like all the signs and now like 3 days later its liek hes not even talking to me anymore and like next month he'll prob do the same thing but idk if he still likes me and is afraid to tell me bc he doesnt wnat to no my reaction or what i just dont no should i give up on him or not or what should i even do??well thanks for the help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE answered Tuesday May 9 2006, 10:09 pm: LORDY! haha sweetie never give up! trust me! just tell him when your ready that you dont like it when he tells you that he loves you and then the next day he ignores you. see what he says and ask him for his real feelings/ ikno its hard to do and it seems impossible but maybe hes confused about his feelings and maybe you could help him figure it out. and about the whole make up thing. i kno its weird but getting dressed up and going out with your friends is so helpful it makes yu feel gorgeous again. you dont need make-up but sometimes it can make yu feel a little better and always kno tht yu dont need him to make yu happy or to make urself beautiful. and if yu need to talk my s.n is ohemgeeitsleigh9 i wont judge yu and everything will be kept a secret. sorry if i didnt help but i tried my hardest and i hope everything works out. [ XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE's advice column | Ask XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE A Question ]
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