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i still love my ex-boyfriend


Question Posted Monday May 8 2006, 9:18 pm

okay my exboyfriend rob dumped me because of something my friend said to him. i cried for days about it, and he finally took me back. That same day he dumped me again because people were getting mad at him for dating me. I still have serious feelings for him and i love him sooo much! one of my best friends also likes him, and they are "friends with benefits". i don't know what to do, i want to tell him how i feel but i'm afraid that he will get mad at me, or not want to be friends with me or soemthing. PLEASE help me !

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tasuki answered Monday May 8 2006, 9:35 pm:
You're afraid he won't want to be your friend? I'm sorry, but you need to get over that. You need to completely get over this guy. He is not worth your time. This is going to be hurtful, the truth often is, but he doesn't care about you. He took you back because you were crying and he wanted you to stop. I know you still feel attached to him now, but this will fade in time. Just keep telling yourself that he's part of your past, and that you don't want him. If you really, really need to talk to him about it, do so. But don't expect to get back together with him. In fact, it's a good idea to get rid of all expectations, because if you don't expect anything, you can't be disappointed. Just say, "I still have feelings for you--I don't want to act on them, I just want you to know." I know it's hard, believe me, I KNOW. But this is what you need.

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