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Moving too quickly???
Hi I'm 15/f and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. I was wondering is it considered "getting fingered" if the guy just kind of messes around and sorta does, but not for very long. He always asks me if it is ok and if I want him to stop and he will. I mean I don't think it is bad, but afterwards i start to feel kind of guilty.We don't want to have sex, but I am afraid that if we are already at this stage that it might happen and I don't want it to so if you have any ideas or advice please let me know. Thanks
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if you dont want it, talk to him to make sure he knows you dont want it. my boyfriend and i have had sex and im 14. its stresses both of us out. and now its like.... when we are in a position to do, you feel like you have too. we talk alot. but that doesnt change things now. do it when your ready. i would stick it out and stick with your heart. dont do it till you ready and can handle the presure.
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If you don't want to have sex then don't put yourself in a position where it will be even more tempting then it already is. Don't let him finger you. If he is already messing around in your vagina then thats makes it more difficult to resist the temptation of going a little further. So don't make it more challenging then it already is. You have a goal of not having sex yet so stick to it.
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