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can't find the clitorus! Where exactly is the clitorus, and how can I easily find it? Also, any suggestions for arousal?
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The clitoris - if you place a finger at the top of your vaginal lips and slowly pull your finger downwards, you'll find it in about an inch. Chances are if you aren't aroused it will be underneath a small hood. It may feel like a small bump, and chances are when your finger touches it you'll be able to tell because it's full of nerve endings.
Arousal and orgasm are tricky things. If you feel aroused before you touch yourself, you'll be able to orgasm much more easily. If you masturbate just because you're bored or feel like some unexciting exploration, your body might not react in a sexual way - after all, the brain is what makes or breaks most sexual encounters.
If you feel aroused and have found your clitoris, try different things and just see what feels good. Some females like direct clitoral stiumulation, and some like more indirect touching - like through the hood or just above the clitoris. It's a totally individual thing.
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