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i need some quick advice for her....
my friend has been complaining a lot lately about her sex life. she keeps asking me for advice but i said i would just ask you guys. she wants to make her sex life more pleasurable. she complains that her boyfriend sucks at it and she thinks he is doing it wrong or sumthing. so exactly what is the right way to have sex and do u have any tips on how to make it more pleasurable? thank you.
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Asking what is the right way to have sex and how do you lick a lolli~pop or two in the same, kinda diffucult to answer with out just sayin you lick it! lol know what I mean. Ok, so I'm going to give this one a shot. First off, you said she said he sucks and maybe he isn't doing it right, it takes two to tango so if she knows, why dont she show him the way? Here's a website I want her to go to, maybe it will help her positon wise. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) Other than that, there's nothing we can say that will make him not suck in the sack. she's just going to have to talk to him, I'm not sayin she should sit him down and be like dude! you suck! more like I saw this position and I wana try it and let her lead the way, hopefully soon he can handle it on his own.
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If you want the best sex in the world don't talk to him when you are having sex it pisses him off and just causes tension. However, you can say sexy things to each other if that's what you like. It's very important not to talk during sex or foreplay. Why is that? Because listening to someone and thinking of a response takes your concentration away from what you are physically doing and particularly in men it draws blood away from downstairs and take it upstairs to your brain instead. Experiment different things talk to him before having sex in the bedroom about what things are his fantasies for instance what would make it better for him then make sure you tell him. For example some guys like seeing their women with another girl or men like to see there lady with another man make sure the trust is there first and then if it is something you imagined doing and your partner agrees shoot for it. It could be fun for both of you.
Tantra is a form of advanced love making skill, that if used and developed can help your relationship blossom. You should place scented candles around the room, whatever you like best. Sit facing each other cross legged. Gaze into the eyes of your partner, and mirror their breathing. Do not speak -(as stated before) remain silent, but keep eye contact at all times. Make love normally, but with syncronised breath and eye contact. This will ensure that the act is particularly intimate, and in time you can move onto more sophisticated techniques such as delaying orgasm and making love for as long as you like.
Good luck!
♥ Evy
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