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My GirlFriend Thinks I Am Obsessive And I Need Advice PLEASE
Hey, I have been going out with the most amazing girl ever for about 2 months only and I guess she thinks I am an obsessive boyfriend.. I guess I see where she's comming from... I alwayse want to push to see her every weekend and every day I call her quite a few times.. I guess this is a turn off, but I like her so much and I feel that ever since she told me that she needed a little space she's been avoiding me a little bit.. I call her but instead of the 3 hour cnversations now there 10 minutes and stuff.. I want to know how to go about making her feel comfortable and not seem obsessive.. Someone told me just not to call her and wait till she calls you.. Is this the way to go. I want her to know I care about her, but I also want to see she cares about me.. I need your advide please! Oh, and my name is Kevin and I'm 16.
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Kevin,
Yes, that is way too obsessive. Girls don't like to be bothered every minute of the day. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you but its too much. Give her her space. Cut it down to about 2 phone calls a week, and hour max and DO NOT PRESSURE her to see you. If you want to see her on a weekend have something planned and make it so you two can have fun. Don't hang on her. Be there for her, be honest and tell her that you're sorry for pressuring her so much. Tell her that you think she is an awesome girl and thats the reason you're like that. Tell her you have new rules for yourself and state them to her. Thats the way to do it.
Good luck
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