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what should i do?
Hey I really like this kid thats in my english class and i know that he liked me in the beginning of the year but i said no when he asked me out. I asked him over myspace message if he likes me and he said only as a friend and that he doesnt want to loose me as a friend. and he said "lets see how the rest of the year goes".
So yeah, i message him everyday and i dont wanna be annoying but i love getting messages from him and i dont know what to message him this time and how do you know if a guy is playing "hard to get"?
and another thing was when we were messaging, he was asking me why i like him and why i want to date him.
so yesterday when i messaged him i was like "hey cutie...blah blah blah we should hang out sometime!" and he messaged me back and hes like "what about 'hey hottie'?? and then said yeah sure we can hang out if you want." do you think he wants to hang out with me? also do you think we should hang out one on one? or with freinds?
another thing is, i gave him my number and was like"when you wanna hang out or just talk call me" and he never called.
so today i messaged him and i asked him if he wanted to hang out this friday or weekend or something and he told me he couldnt and what he was doing. he said he has a baseball game friday night and i checked on the school website and he does. so i know for sure that he actually does want to hang out.
Thanks!
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It looks like you missed the moment. You rejected him the first time, so he lost interest in you.
You can tell a guy is playing "hard-to-get" when he says things like "I love you, you're beautiful, blah blah blah" and the next day acts like he wouldn't care if you flew to the moon in front of his face. And it doesn't sound like what he's doing.
Resist your urge to message him every day. It gets annoying if it's someone he's not interested in and besides, it's immature. It makes you look featherbrained. Most women have the maturity not to do that.
You haven't written enough for me to make an inference of whether he wants to hang out or not. I say it's too early to tell. Wait about two weeks, and then try again. If it turns out that he wants to hang out, then do it one-on-one. If there are other girls around, they'll all be talking to him and it would be pointless. If you invite other guys, then he'll just talk to them.
If you need more help, feel free to message me again.
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