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when you said, "Do you want to go to a movie this Friday?" as an idea to ask someone out, where i live, thats just taken as goin to the mivies as friends...and ive done that plenty of times. to get a girl to be your girlfriend, you have to ask her out. i know, its stupid, and i agree. but its the only thing that works...ive asked 2 people out this year, but liked a few more. my hormones are really wacked up..at one point i liked this one beautiful girl, but shes a sophmore, and im only a freshman, so i kinda forced myself to stop dreaming...however, shes only a month older than me, so now im back into it again..and theres like 2 other beautiful people in my life, and i dont kno which way to go..i know i should just lay off, but my body and mind wont accept that. my one of them is argententian, so shes just beautiful to begin with...i love to listen to her laugh, to see her smile, and i marvel at how she thinks. shes like the one, but shes moving back to argentina, to my dismay..so i try and just be friends with her. the second person, shes just as wonderful. her eyes are just gorgeous, and the way she looks at you; i have to try to stay concious...shes ALWAYS kind to me, but i dont think she likes me like that...option number three plays harp, and is in my orchestra class. shes the one whos only a month older than me. shes pretty. she doesnt have that "hott" face, but she makes me laugh, and shes just really pretty and well rounded. im stuck with no where to go, and i see these three people every day. i need advice, please!
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Look, if you want to allow high school social conventions about whether or the not the movies is a 'date' determine your interactions with the opposite sex, so be it. I also suggested a picnic on Sunday, but really, those where just ideas I was throwing out there, examples on the best way to ask a girl out, not to be taken literally. Go ahead, you have my permission to think outside the box, get creative and come up with your own ideas for a date.
I really can't advise you on which of your three girls to pursue.
I don't know you.
I don't know them.
I can't determine from your description which one is your dream girl. What I can tell you is that despite your raging hormones you are actually in control of this situation. The only single thing that is not in your control is whether or not they like you. Listen to all the advice you want, but in the end, you'll have to make the decision. If you stall and are only full of self-doubt, then time will make the decision for you, as it steals each of these beautiful people from your life.
So forget your hormones for a little while and think about who the girls you are interested in are as people, not just beauty queens. Who can you talk to with the most ease? Who makes you feel like the best person you can be? Who might be interested in you as well? Pursuing one girl with seriousness is sure to get you farther towards a relationship then acting trapped between a whole bunch of ladies.
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