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Do boys PMS? D:
I'm going through some weird relationship trouble. I'm thirteen and I had a boyfriend of six months. I love him to peices but...
The other day, his best friend messaged me saying he asked this other girl out.
I am devestaded.
Its been a week now, and we're okay. My ex keeps giving me hints that he likes me even though he has a girlfriend.
We had the best relationship ever, I don't know what could have gone wrong.
I still like him;
i can't help it.
No matter how much of a jackass he is, I continue to like him.
Over messenger today, he asked me to flash him. Obviously, I declined I scolded him.
So he blocked me.
I called him to ask him why he was being so irrational and his friend was over, playing some mean trick.
He later apologized but...
I can't get my mind off him and he seems to still like me.
I am scrrrreeeewed, man.
A part of me wants to get back to him, a part of me dosen't.
Any ideas?
-lovesick
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I understand exactly where you're comign from. I've been in that situation also before. I think that you like your ex for someone that he isn't. This may sound confusing, but maybe you thought he was a different type of person. If you had a great relationship with him, and he seemed to be so perfect, maybe you're still stuck on that idea of that perfect relationship. Unfortunately, sometimes we think that someone is a really great person, and they turn out not to be. But soemtimes we refuse to believe that that certain person is a jerk, since we want that person to be all wonderful and what-not.
I don't think you really like him. I think you like the idea of having that great long term relationship. Which believe me, you will get someday because you are still pretty young. (Boys actually do go through puberty and it actual takes longer for boys to mature than girls both physically and mentally. So you could say he was PMSing in a way.) Anyways, he does sound like a jerk, I mean, if it was me, I'd hurt him. But break ups are hard, especially if he was your first or second, or even third boyfriend.
Now that you know what he's really like, or maybe what he has turned into, I sugguest you ignore him. it's going to be hard, but I know you can do it. He may even still like you, like you said, but don't talk to him or even Look at him. He doesn't desserve your attention. If he sees that you no longer have an interest in him, it may make him realize what he lost. Besides, if you get back together with him, won't you just feel more hurt and more vulnerable to get hurt again?
You're going to find a great guy who really loves you. But there's always those "bad" guys that you will have sometimes awkward relationships with.
Sorry that this was so long, but I can totally relate!
-Johanna
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