I like this guy and he knows i have feelings for him but i don't know how to approach him or talk to him about the chance of us getting to know each other.What should i do if i want to avoid getting the answer "i'm not interested?"
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskTammy answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 4:45 pm: Simple- don't make the first move. Guys like to be the ones that do the chasing. However, in order to increase your chances you should look hot, hang close to him ( but subtly not so it looks like your stalking) and look at him and smile but then look away, then do this again and wait for him to make a move. So for example, if he is sitting with some friends, go sit or stand by him but don't look at him at first. Make sure you are in clear vicinity where he can see you but be busy chatting to your friends or something. Then casually look at him, smile and then as soon as you catch his eye look down, then reapeat this. He should start up a conversation with you at some point. When he does make sure you're prepared. Think of 3 unique things that you're into and somehow let them flow into the conversation i.e. I'm going to the polo match on friday, but I might have to be late because I'm volunteering at the shelter, or something...he'll then find you interesting different and amazing. good luck! [ AskTammy's advice column | Ask AskTammy A Question ]
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