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Giving a chance
Triple G.... again. I was reading all 46 pages of your column, and I was wondering,(what I'm asking here doesn't relate to me, I was just wondering) say if someone you don't know very well asks you out, like they say they've always been watching you and asking like your classmates bout you, don't you feel that you should at least give the person a chance?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, it's really up to the person who is asked out. After all, they may feel uncomfortable going out with a virtual stranger. On the other hand, they might be flattered!
It took the person a big risk to admit how they felt in the first place, but all the other person really owes them is kindness - whether they accept or not.
Perhaps a better way for that person to proceed in the future would be to do everything they did this time - except to start by slowly talking to their crush first. This gives both people a chance to get to know each other better, become more comfortable, and to decide whether they are really attracted to each other.
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