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how would i.....
ok for starters i am mostly an idiot when it comes to relationships....with that out of the way i only recently realized that i needed to really like a girl to be with her for an extended period of time.....for the longest time i was horribly put down by people (females included) and i was basically made to think i am ugly and no girl is gonna want me....so for years now ive just felt lucky to GET girlfriends even though i know i can....and ive hardly been focusing on myself finding qualities in them that i like...problem is its hard for a person like me to find a realistic girl that i can like.....most that seemingly fit this category are taken or consider themselves "not my type".......i wanna know how i would go about making them realize that just cuz i like supposedly "dark" music and wear predominantly black and leather, that i may have some things in common with them and stand a chance with them...im a high school senior that will be 18 in a week or 2 (if that helps much)...if anyone at all answers this id be happy and rate you well.
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Well, you should talk to them and tell them all the things that you LOVE so maybe you and her can have a amazing conversation that you both have in commen. Tell her that she should give you the chance becuase on the outside you might be ugly or something but really on the inside you are a great person and want to get to know this person alot.
Good Luck
Sydney
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First you have to find a girl you like. One who you think has those qualities your looking for. That in itself can be hard to do these days!
Once you do that just concentrate on getting to know her. Talk to her, just be friendly and polite. Smile now and then.
Really, what you wear or what you listen to need not be a turn off for the right girl. The right girl need not like all the same things you do. But she needs an open mind.
Once a girl gets to know you, she will realize there is more to you than what shows on the outside. That's when you ask her out.
Good luck.:)
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