|
Am I weird?
Hey Scratches, I've read a few of your answers and I think you give some fantastic advice. I have a bit of a strange question, I've been with this guy for about 4 months now, I really like him and the sex is fantastic, but I have a fetish that I'm terrified of telling him about, let alone indulging with him in. I like pissing on people. God I hope this doesnt get deleted because I really need some help, what do I do? Am I a freak??
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Hey thanks. No you're not a freak, there's a whole subculture of this kind of thing- you'd only have to type it into google if you were so inclined to get a whole bunch of stuff up about it- might put your mind at rest about being the only one!
As for your boyfriend, if he's shown no signs of kinkyness in the four months you guys have been together I'd tread pretty carefully. Start him on a conversation about both your fantasies, starting pretty tame then working up a little if he doesn't get freaked out. You should be able to judge how far you can take it by how responsive he is. You don't necessarily need to introduce this particular fetish in the first conversation but just talking about what you both like at all opens up the lines of communication, gets you two a bit closer and gives you an idea where you stand.
I'd say only tell him about this when you're totally comfortable with each other (4 months isn't all that long) and you trust him not to talk about ti to anyone else. And if you find out in the course of discussion that he's actually pretty reserved in what he likes in bed, maybe this is one to keep purely in your imagination! x
]
More Questions: |