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my friend cant decide what to do
ok well my friend has been going out with this guy for like 2 months and he is all over every othergirl in our school especially one girl who calls her self my friends "friend", he's very touchy and flirty and i called him out on it but he was like thats not flirting!! and got really mad!and she wants to break up with him but he told her she's "the one" he's been waiting for for a year and she doesnt want to hurt him.. and also she likes this other guy who one of her really good friends is like obsessed with and she doesnt want her mad at her if things work with this other.. hope that wasnt too confusing.. soo what shoul di tell her b/c so far ive just been like dump him and we'll deal with the other situation later..?
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haha, yeah, that was sorta confusing at first, but I have some friends who have gone through that, so I got it. mk, as to the guy, unfortunately, a LOT of guys now are like that where they feel that touching and all of that means nothing which is, to me, wrong. get your friend, the one who's going out with him, to talk to him about it (if she really wants to keep things going, if not, you probably wouldn't be telling me even though I get the feeling that you're not to excited about the guy by this point. don't take offence, I wouldn't be thrilled either) as to the other guy, the one that both of your friends like, I would have your friend who is currently dating to tell him that your other friend likes him. I know it sounds like um...I guess you'd say emotional suicide, but really, the only way either of them could move on if your first friend's relationship didn't work out would be to know that your other friend's relationship couldn't have worked either so that it would be fine for your first friend to date him. (I realize that not only is this confusing, but it also seems like I'm planning for either relationship to fail. I'm not, that would be horrible. I'm telling you what to do to make sure that both of your friends can move on if one or the other, or both, relationships fail.) anyways, hope this helped. if it didn't or I missed something, just let me know!
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