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Does my co-worker/friend like me?
Hi there!
I am a 24 year old female who is single. I am currently liking my co-worker/friend who is a year older than me. Can you please help me decipher whether he likes me or not.
I have been with the company that I work for over a year. But towards the end of last year my co-worker started to act weird around me. He tends to hang-out in my cubicle more and takes time to chat with me. He acts extra sweet and nice to me compared before.
When he gave his christmas present which by the way is a purse. While opening the gift, I found a piece of paper with white doves on it. The first thing that came to my mind is that this symbolizes marriage or love. My question is did he intentionally place this or was it just an accident?
And is it normal for him to kiss me on the forehead on special occassions? My friends tell me that it it not normal for friends to kiss. Was it just a friendly kiss or did it have meaning? Please help me!!!
Thank you very much!!!
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It sounds like he may some interest in you, but how could you know yet? I believe it's not normal for friends to kiss because it obviously seems like he some kind of interest in you. But try to test him out. Give him hints, like compliment on his clothing, or hairstyle, and see if he'll say anything that friends wouldn't say. Try flirting with him a little bit. Maybe he'll follow along and soon you'll probably get your answer.
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Please! You are twenty-four years old. Stop playing the "Does he like me?" game. Start playing the "I am a grown women in charge of my own destiny" game.
He gave you a nice gift and is affectionate; these are good signs (however I doubt the piece of paper in the purse meant a thing, very few men are that subtle.)
But most importantly is that in your gut, it sounds to me like you believe he is interested. There you go, trust that instinct. You know your own world and mind better then anyone else here.
So great, he's interested. Are you going to do anything about that?
If you like him too, you probably should.
The first thing you might want to do is look into your company's policy on interoffice dating. You don't want to do anything that could get either of you fired.
After that, offer a bit more encouragement and work up to asking him out for coffee or lunch, something quick and sweet during the work day or right after, where you can truly gauge his interest.
Take control and good luck.
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