theres this girl at school right. and i really do love her but she says shes not ready for a boyfriend. should i ask her out anyway? or should i wait til its to late and someone else did...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x0Mel answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 7:56 pm: well, if she says that she's not ready for a boyfriend, i think you should just let her have time off untill she lets you know how she feels. it wont be "too late". if she doesnt feel the same way, then she doesnt, she might end up having feelings for you, she could have feelings for you already but just isnt ready for a boyfriend in her life for some reason. you can't control how someone feels, and if another guy takes her then.. it doesnt mean you came too late or anything, she just felt a certain way towards someone else rather than you. never rush a girl into anything, or pressure her, thats the worst thing you could do, it makes them feel nervous and say wrong things, or just feel like their being pressured and you need to know immediately, which could come off as a turnoff. so just let her tell you if shes ready and make the moves, but dont act any different towards her or weird, cause thats how guys usually get, and will make herr feel strange, and guilty. any other question feel free to ask.
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