okay. so i just broke up with this one guy, he was really sweet and he loved me alot. he is my best friend and i care about him deeply but i wasnt ready for a relationship when i went out with him. i had gone out with him 2 weeks after i had broken up with a guy i had been with for 6 months. and to this day i still love the boy from 6 months. and now theres this new guy actually from my school. and he smiles and me in the hall and says hi and talks to me alot. and he has told his friends he wants to ask me out. but im worried i will make things worse b/c im still not over the boy from 6 months or the other boy. what should i do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x0Mel answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 7:50 pm: well, i think because your not totally over the guy from sixth months.. then you should take a few weeks or maybe even a month or so off. you should just take a break from relationships so you wont screw everything up in the future relationships. because, if you go out with the new guy from school.. you will still be thinking of the guy from sixth months, and compare everything from the past relationship in the future ones, which will be horrible. so i say, give time off from guys, keep the new guy hooked but no too much, and find out what you truely want to do and who you want to be with, so you wont mess everything up and hurt a guy that is sooo into you. hope i helped, feel free to ask anything else! [ x0Mel's advice column | Ask x0Mel A Question ]
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