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older guy..
ok i like this guy who is 16 im 13. hes sorta a "bad boy" but still like really respect full and sweet. when me and him are alone we are like all over each other and flirting a lot but when hes around his friends he will still flirt with me but not as much... i dont know if that means he will always be different around his friends or what. he doesnt like me being younger than him at all. he always says i should have be born earlier and stuf like that but he has never really said he likes me or anything he tells his friends he thinks im "fine" or whatever but wont say anything like that to me.i dont know if i should tell him i like him evan though i know that he knows that because i told his friend i did and talk to him and see if he likes me or just stay this friends with benifits or what ever we are? PLEASE HELP SOON!!!
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I am 16 and i have been with a boy who is 19 and everything was fine...I think that this guy cares much more about what others tell than he cares about his own feelings.I think that he believes that he is someone important and that younger girls mean nothing.
You say "friend of benefits"/I think that the specific guy does not deserve all these things you do or you want to do.Don't be his friend of benefits don't tell him anything.He knows it.
What about your behaviour?Stop showing him that you like him.Ignore him and behave like a mature girl.Show him that you deserve much more than him and that you know it.I think that you should try to find an other nice boy and he will be jealous...
The only thing i know is that he is egoist and that you should not keep showing him that you like him...
I hope i helped...Emily
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Hmm... a typical relationship problem. Remember, you are still young.
Quite apparent, there is an age gap between the two of you. Look at it this way, in a year or two, he might not even be around. He would be going off to college and you will still be in highschool.
Frankly, anything can happen to him during this transition. He is maturing and this is when he will start choosing his path in life. People at that age have different requirements.
You might want to think if you are going to be matured enough to be in a relationship with an older person who is in a different "world".
On the bright side, he could change into a real gentleman after stepping into society and you guys would be fitting for each other.
If you are really in a hurry to know what he thinks and where this is going to end, sit him down and talk to him.
If not, i suggest you keep in contact with him and wait patiently till the time is right. How would you if the time is right? You will know when the time comes.
Look, whatever happens, you will either gain a boyfriend or gain a "big brother".
"Trust yourself, follow your heart"
Good luck!!!
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