Dear Sirena,
I'm 29 years old and I'm cheating on my 26 year old wife with an 18 year old hotty. My wife doesn't have the faintest idea, and that's good. But I want her ta know. She's got a rite.
But I don't wanna stop seing this girl. She's young, beautiful and very frisky. I want to stay with my wife cause we've got a little girl together, but how can I have both girls? That's what I want. And how do I tell Sara I'm cheating on her with a girl the same age as her younger sisters?
Please help.
Matt
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ask-it-here answered Thursday April 13 2006, 3:25 pm: Dear Matt,
You know what? I want a million dollars, but I'm never gonna get it. You made a promise to be faithful to your wife, and you're breaking it. So now you've got a choice. You either make things right with your wife, or you divorce her. You can't have it both ways. And don't think you just won't tell her, because things like that come back to you, and get around to her.
Sit down with her and tell her what you're doing. If she truly loves you, she'll give you another chance. But expect her to be furious and hurt. It'll take a while for her to trust you again.
If you want this girl more than your wife, then tell your wife the marrage isn't working out. Don't put her through this pain. If you're heartless toward your wife and don't really care how she feels, then do it for your daughter at the least.
Good luck.
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