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Been hit on ?
My boyfriends best friend is like hitting on me, touching me, flirting with me all the time. He jokes around and says he wants me to dump my boyfriend to go out with him. And he like touches my leg and stuff. I want to let my boyfriend know whats going on, but how do I bring it up. I mean come on, this guy is his best friend?
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Whatever you decide, you have to tell him because regardless of whether he is your boyfriend's best friend, his work colleague or dog walker from down the road, his behaviour is very inappropriate and I'm pretty sure if he knew what was going on, he would realise this guy isn't much of a friend.
The only thing you have to bear in mind is that he might overreact to start with. So wait until he is in a reasonably good mood before you approach the subject. Mention to him that you need to tell him something but you're worried he'll think it's your fault or that you wanted it to happen. When he asks, tell him that his friend has been putting the moves on you and it's making you really uncomfortable (stress this so he knows any feelings are not reciprocated). Explain you really haven't given him any reason to think you would be interested but you're not happy with what has been happening and you thought he should know what was going on.
He should accept this and either try to have a word with this 'friend' or he should begin keeping an eye on you when he's around.
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You need to tell him. He isn't being much of a friend if he is hitting on you. That's just rotten.
Just tell your boyfriend that while you don't want to cause a problem but, you don't like ____'s behavior and you'd really like it if he told him to stop it.
Then hopefully he puts an end to it. :)
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