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me and this kid went out a long time ago and he was my first guy that i actually really cared about and then we broke up for about a year and a half..we still talked and i always liked him..i never really stoped...then just recently we went back out..we hooked up on 3/16 and he just broke up with me yesterday because he got a ticket and hes getting his licences(spelling?) taken away and he said that hes won't be able to see me and he has to get a job and he has to move out this summer and he just wants to be single.. it really hurt me because there is no one else i want ..i meann he makes me soo happy and everything..we never got into a fight and i thought our relationship was going great...and i don't know what to do, i just want to be with him ...im so upset about it and i need help on how to deal with it.. hes the only guy that broke up with me..all the other guys i broke up with..help?
thanks in advance
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You don't have to get into a fight with the one you love to break up. He probably still does love you, but is trying to get his life settled in better before he has a relationship.Its ok its your first break up on you situation, it'll be better soon. For now, just ask him if theres anything you could do to help him with finding a job and such. Be a friend to him right now during this time. Most likely you two will get back together. Good Luck! Hope I helped!!!
-Brina
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you should defiantly tell him how you feel about him breaking up with you...you've been heart broken and it's nothing you can do about it but just move on, even though that'll take time since you really loved this boy. You'll eventually find someone that is great like him. But if you tell him how you feel hopefully he'll decide to work things out with you. Also i think you shouldn't imagine relationships or anything else as if it is going to last forever and this is just a new experience in your life that a guy breaks up with you. also its not a step by step way to get over a broken heart it happens naturally...hope i helped
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I think for now just stay friends since it seems like he does have a lot to deal with. just try to help him as much as you can with his moving, ticket, job ect. and he will see how much you can help him with everything and realize that he can manage having a girlfriend and all the problems at once. but take things slow. hope it all works out :]
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