Im finding it near impossible to get a girl friend.
Question Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 12:47 pm
Im 18 year old and at the moment studying for my A Levels. Ive never had a girl friend as such, ive had physical relationships just based on sex etc. but as of late Im starting to feel pretty lonely. I haven't got too many close friends but people seem to get along with me. Im not amazingly handsome but i couldn't possibly say i was ugly, im a pretty good build 33 inch waist 6' tall, and ive got a pretty extravagant style of dress. But unfortunately girls just dont seem to like me, its really getting me down, i dont know what im doing wrong or what im doing right. I need advice. x
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday April 5 2006, 8:51 pm: Well, I dunno how much I can help you. No one understands the innerworkings of the opposite sex. Looks really don't matter all that much. I can't tell you what you're doing wrong or right, but if you're shy, or uncertain, or have low self esteem, that could be your answer.
What exactly are you doing to try to "get a girl friend"? You could be trying too hard, or trying the wrong way. There are so many things you could be doing wrong.
There are also, however, a lot of things you could be doing right, and you might just not know the right people. Your success depends quite a bit on your surroundings, and not necessarily you.
I will tell you that I believe everyone has their time. I'm sure that's not what you wanted to hear. Unfortunately, without more detail I can't give you very detailed advice. Can you give me an example of an interaction between yourself and a girl you're interested in - is there someone you're interested in, or is this just a general thing?
If you'd like me to try a little harder, I'd be glad to - I just need more info.
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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