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i think im in love w/ my best friend...but to guys are falli
i think im in love with my best friend..that happens to be a girl...im a girl myself and 15..but im not sure, maybe i just think i like her like that b/c i kno she likes girls and has had girlfriends in the past. we've never really done anything but when ive been with her i have gotten like turned on i suppose...but idk..maybe im just confused. she knows how i think i feel but i told her i didnt want to be with a girl and she said that she knows that and tries not to like me like that..but its hard b/c my feelings take over sometimes when they souldnt and it kinda leads her on i guess. then theres a boy whom ive been speaking with for a couple months or so. i mostly talk to him on the fone..he doesnt usually talk to me at school.i told him i didnt feel like i could be with anyone rite now when he asked me out. but we still talk. i like being friends with him but thats all i want to be with him. i think it would be unfair to go out with him and not feel the same way he feels about me. but he wants a chance really bad. then in the past three weeks or so i started talking to a guy who i met this year. he really likes me..i dont kno him that well yet but im waiting to see..hes really cute..kinda annoying sometimes but funny. i could see myself likeing him and i think i can see myself with him. he sounds like he's gonna ask me out soon and if he does i want to say yes. but i kno that wouldnt be fair to the first guy and would upset my best friend even though it shouldnt. i dont want people to get hurt especailly my best friend but ive been single for a long time and really want a relationship, with a BOY. i really think i do have feelings for my best friend..if that is true than a lot of things ive done or felt in the past would make sense..shes been hurt so many times in so many ways. i kno that if i was to be with her...i can only see myself being swept away by some guy in the future and her being left there..hurt..i couldnt stand to see that..if she ever did anything bad for herself b/c of me. but now that she knows how i think i feel its really hard to keep my feelings inside. so sorry this is soo long..its quite complicated..i somewhat kno my options i just want some other peoples opinions on how i should handle this situation...it would be much appreciated if someone would get back to me.
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ok look its ok to love a let yourself exspress tell her how you feel see what her reaction is but dont let anyone keep you down dont let anyone say omg shes a friken lezbien. because thats rong do what you gut tells you.
~Kim~
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You really need to think about why you are fighting your feelings for this girl. Maybe it is because you are worried how others will feel more than you are worried about your own happiness. When 2 people truly have feelings for each other they usually can't fight it for very long. It is possible that you may be bisexual which means you like both boys and girls. Only you can figure that out. But there is also the possibility that you only want to date a boy because you were raised and taught that is the way it is supposed to be. But you have to remain true to yourself. Be honest with yourself and everyone else without leading anyone on. And follow your heart. Only you can truly know how you feel in your heart. So think long and hard before you make any decisions. I hope this all helps. HUGS Fiesty
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