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being attracted
Whenever I start to like someone, I just end up not liking them a few days later..For example, the girl who I'm confused about now I used to like, but then I stopped and now I'm starting to again and stop again..I guess I find the negative things in people. Also, I always change personalities. At school, I'm typically shy. At games/parties/anywhere outside school, I'm more outgoing, so if someone tells me they like me, I'm never sure which "me" they like, and so I try to act like someone I'm not. It's just a mess. What do I do? Don't say be yourself.
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well, it's important to realize that eveyone has certain negative qualites. usually people have more positives than negatives. it's not a great idea to just judge people on what negativities they have. instead, look at the person in general. what are her positives, negatives, interests, and things like that.
i go through the same thing too, i'm the "goodie-goodie" kid at school, but at parties, i end up being an animal. it's always good to know your limitations. just know that there are people out there who like you for whoever you are, no matter what personality you try on. people like shy people, people like outgoing people, hell, people like both. it's always good to have a balance to your ying-yang sides.
take care, and tell me how things are going.
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Well, I have that same problem... I will like someone and then stop and start back up and drop it all when i find ONE little thing that i dont like about them (Sadly the longest relationship i ever had was 1 week)... I learned that the more comfortable i am with myself the easier it is to like someone imperfections and all... WOW! I am very loud and outgoing at school but you'd never reconize out of school because i'm so quiet and shy, and people tell me to be myself too... but it makes me mad because thats just me. About acting like someone you're not thats never a good thing, but i'm not going to tell you to be yourself but you should really try... the difference btw you inside and outside of school could just be the way you were taught to be... well i hope i helped and this made since
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well i no that you probably dont want to hear this but "B your self"
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that statement is true but the true thing is that you need to follow your heart. if you really love the person then you won't change yourself, the only reason why u change personalities is because you have no idea of what 2 say or your bored. try sticking 2 , one personality and if that personality doesn't work then try another, keep trying until you have found the right 1
hope that this helps tell me if i does.
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