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i need advice
hey my name is leilani i am a 17 year old female in tacoma washington i have been with this guy for a while now and he gave me hickeys on my neck then the other night we had sex but we didnt use a condom should i be worried all though i was on birth control? why is so hard for guys to tell there girls how they are feeling about them?
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Leilani,
As far as the hickeys, if you haven't tried the frozen/cold spoon against the neck thing, I would try it. (Put a spoon in the fridge and when it's really cold press it against the hickey. It might be too late to do it now, but you never know.
For your second issue, if you take your birth control the way you're supposed to and don't miss any pills or take them too late, then you should be okay. I still reccomend using condoms, unless you're 100% sure there are no STDs involved. It also increases the effectiveness of birth control to at least 98%. Neither the pill or a condom is 100% effective, but if you take your birth control the right way you shouldn't have much of a problem.
You wanna know why it's so hard for guys to tell their girls how they are feeling about them? You mean if they love them, or whatever? "I love you" is hard to say. It means a lot. If the guy isn't sure you reciprocate his feelings, he's not gonna wanna come out and say it. Those three little words mean so much to some people, not enough to others, and other people still don't even know what it means to them. Love is like a jewel. It's strong, it lasts a long time, and it's a beautiful and alluring thing. Some guys are too afraid to dive into the whole thing. Some girls are, too, understandably. It means an immeasurable amount to tell someone you love them and mean it.
I hope this answers your questions.
-Siren =)
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