okay. well there's this guy with the name of "jack".. yeah well... hes kinda popular i guess. alot of girls like him.. but of course all of my friends thinks he likes me. but i dont. me and him go really far back to about 5th grade. me & him talk ocassionaly and used to be best friends. well last summer he asked me out and than broke up with me the next day.. nice guy? yeah well somedays, while hes with his friends, he will forget im even there or even exsist. he wont even look at me. but when his firends aren't there, he always talks to me and smiles in the flirty way. yeahh well this week on monday & tuesday he ignored me and than wednesday and thursday he talked to me but on friday he didnt talk to me. i want to tell him how i feel so bad, but some people tell me that he talks so much shit about me and i don't know if its true or not. every time i ask him he denie's it and turns it the other way. i dont know if i talk to him he will think im obsessed or that im like annoying. and my friends always say he likes me. but i dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Monday March 20 2006, 5:41 pm: Friends aren't always right and sometimes people just say "yeahh, he likes you!!" to make you feel better or to boot your confidence. Of course your friends are going to say that, but don't listen to the other people. You don't know that he talks shit about you and you really do need to talk to him. He seems like a huge jerk and if I were you, I wouldn't even be worrying about him. Anyways, whenever he does talk to you, make sure you bring it up. Tell him what's bothering you and if he acts immature about it and thinks you're annoying, forget him. It's his loss and you don't need someone to treat you like that. Some guys are just fags when it comes to their friends. My guy friends are like that too. When they are around certain people they're jerks to us (the girls) and when it's us alone, they're all sweet and flirty. They don't want their friends laughing at them or whatever but that's their problem. Just tell him how you feel and if he acts like a fag about it, leave him alone and just move on. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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