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Okay last year during spring break I met a boy through my best friend we went out for almost 2 months except he lives about hours away & we met up once in NYC anyway I fell really hard for him, after he dumped me he got with another girl & they have been together ever since it's been almost a year since I've met him & almost around 10 months since we broke up. I was in shock for about 2 months then I went into depression & then shock + depression. I lost about 15lbs. and I seriously had psychological problems, I was so close to being put into an hospital. Now the thing is at the time I was 14 & he was 18 now I'm 15 & he's 19, I really do love him I mean I don't even known how to explain this. He's the first person I think of & last, and every minute in between. My heart has been crushed, stepped on, crushed even more but I just can't move on. Guys I've liked for YEARS want to go out with me but I just can't move. Why is that? Any good ideas to help me moving on from this kid?
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I know 4 years doesn't seem like a big age difference, but at 14, it is. He's college age, you're barely starting high school. First thing -- Next boy you decide to date, try one a little closer to your age.
I don't know why you went into such a funk, only you can answer that. There's people I still think of..quiet frequently. But the key is to NOT let it run your life the way it has. And the only way you can do it is with two things -- time and hobbies. It won't be easy, but with every day, it'll get a little better. Spend more time with friends, go out as much as possible and do all the things you enjoy. If you like to write, try poetry or even just keeping a journal. I've been keeping a journal for 10 years. I never look back at what I wrote. Never. It's a good way to sort out your feelings at the time. It's pretty therapeutic.
Perhaps your depression problem is rooted a bit deeper. Do you still feel that way? You might want to talk to your parents about it or another trusted adult. They may be able to give you some insight. It might not be a bad idea to look into some counseling as well. Sometimes an objective ear is all you need
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