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best friend trouble
ok....alot of my friends are like pissin me off...i got one of my best friends a boyfriend...and like..... i am best friends with that guy... and i am also best friends with her.... ok..... so... there parents don't know about them...going out.... so they are like okay...carissa we need somehow to plan a way to secretly meet.. im like okay go to the mall.. there like how? im like ok..... i can drive angela there..my friend.... and kenny can be dropped off by one of his friends... we can supposedly misteriously meet... there like thats a great i dea.. i wil lcall you wen.. so then my friend was over last nite.. and angela called her... and she is like.. ok.. carissa..(me) thought of this great idea how we can meet.... so i need a ride... can you take me? im like wat the ****? she agreed that i would take them... so there like pissin me off... and then like everytime i go near kenny (her bf) she punches me or hurts me reallly bad.. and im like HE IS MY BEST FRIEND (one of them atleast) i wanna go by him,... to talk or sumtin cause were friends... and she beats me uyp... and she is just really pissin me off....... wat should i do?? im so confused
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Your friend sounds like she's very insecure over this guy and I guess I can understand why she is this way with you. That's not to say I condone it because with everything you have been trying to do for them, she shouldn't be treating you like this. However, if he's your best friend, it sounds like she may be feeling a little jealous and insecure about the situation, in which case you need to sit her down and ask her why she's doing this to you after everything you've done for them.
Failing that, I'm afraid you're going to have to stay out of the way for a while. I know that sounds like a very unfair suggestion because he's your best friend but soon enough, when he realises how much he's missing his friend, he'll come to you and you can explain to him EXACTLY why you stayed away. That it's unfair to you that you've been helping them sneak around, only for her to treat you so badly if you try to continue your friendship with him. Then you tell him you didn't want to tell him before because you just didn't want to put him in the middle of a potentially awkward situation.
If he's a true friend, he'll have a word with his girlfriend and sort the situation out. It will probably come down to a simple "You HAVE to get on with each other and you have to at least try to be civil."
If this doesn't work then perhaps he's not such a good friend to you as you thought. If he is, he'll really come around after a short time of not speaking to you.
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