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confused.
I'm a 16 year old girl. a sophomore. ive never had a boyfriend. people have told me im good looking. guys have liked me in the past and a lot do now. what are guys looking for besides good looks, and are good looks even important? i guess im just not so into commitment because im picky and i wanna make sure when i go for a guy hes the best guy out there. im also really shy around guys. i freeze up and get self conscious. i have a hard time talking to them in person obviously. i just dont know what to do. at the rate im going ill never have a boyfriend.
im so confused with guys.
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I could really go into details about what guys want other than looks. I'm not every guy so I can't really answer it, as I said above.
The one things I can say most guys who aren't jerks and don't just want you for looks, is that honesty is an absolute. Also is the willingness to be yourself and not be someone else just to make an impression.
Also though, just because your 16 and don't have a boyfriend, doesn't mean anything. My first girlfriend wasn't until I was about 15 and a half. There isn't anything wrong with not having a boyfriend, and just because your 16 doesn't mean anything. By not having a boyfriend until now, you have demonstatrated a good character trait. And that is the willingness to find the right thing for you, as opposed to charging into something blindly (like most relationships nowadays). By proving this, probably the first boyfriend you get, is gonna last awile, as apposed to just weeks and months.
And don't worry about being shy, everyone is shy sometimes, it just takes adjustment to get used to it all, and you'll come around in time, I promise you that.
My honest advice is to keep doing what your doing, be picky about who you let into your heart and pick a guy who is right with you. When you find him, that shyness and everything else you think is gonna go away and your going to be left with just you. You'll get a boyfriend, but when you do it is gonna mean something, and not just be some kinda of quick flirt thing.
If you need anything else, IM me or leave something else in my inbox. But I do hope that maybe this advice helped.
-Ryan
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